Spalsh and lavendars are still called ameraucana (by most people) even thought they arent accepted, they are project colors. If you breed a white to a black it is not going to make a pure color, i call them nonstandard ameraucanas(not everyone agrees one this).And yes there are quuite a few not so friendly breeders but you will find some of those in each breed.I actually bought eggs from a few really nice breeders on BYC.It's one of those weird things, unless you got the chicken from a well known breeder, and it is an accepted color it is called an EE. Even if both parents are pure bred Ameraucana's and the chick turns out to be the wrong color, people will argue that is not an Ameraucana, it's an EE (any breed of chicken bred to a blue egg gene). I was thinking about getting some "real Ameraucana's" but with how cranky some of the "Ameraucana people" can be, I'll just stick with my EE's. I have several and I love them!!
Oh, and he looks like a rooster to me.