Rosepath, where in NH are you? I just moved to Maine from Rye, NH back in June. Lived all over the seacoast for the last 10 years, and worked at a lot of restaurants, too.
Well, a little update on my naughty boy.
I want to thank you all again for your help & input with him. It has helped a lot.
I am proud to say I am NOT afraid of my drake, but am afraid for my chickens where he is concerned. So far split shifts in the yard have kept that problem under control, though the chickens LOVE to "free range" right by the duck house door the entire time they are out.
He tried one more day to step to me, it is annoying, but not scary. It is annoying because I have spent SO MANY HOURS with these silly things, I bring them buckets of warm water before I leave for work in the morning, so they can splash in a hot tub while I bust my behind to pay the feed bill. The last time he ran at me I held him firmly on the ground for several minutes & then paraded him around the yard. Finally I put him in a time out in the pen I have for my broody chickens & let everyone out to come stand around his solo pen & demoralize him further.
He has been doing his deep bow when I come out, but runs behind his hay bale when I open the door with food.
A HUGE improvement, but I don't feel comfortable breeding him, so he will be moving on.
I think I found a large farm (my CSA & a woman I work with making products for her to sell at market -jams, preserves, pickles, and cured meats) that will take him on. She has SO MANY ducks, geese, turkeys, etc that I think he will be taken down a few rungs. If he doesn't fit in, I'll probably wind up making proscuitto out of him, and I won't even have to know.
I just need to get over the guilt of "giving up" on him. I am such a sucker for rescues, and critters with "troubled pasts", and I need to stop feeling so bad. ... Right...?