I live in NY too and I see fires all the time. Hear people singing all the time. Hear people talking all the time - even gunshots, heaven forbid! And we don't even have any visible neighbors!
But, guess what? No one's ever gotten hurt, my property has never been touched, my animals are fine, and it's none of my business.
Unless you are specifically threatened, don't get yourself worked up over things you can't control and people have a right to do in this country; you'll drive yourself mad fretting over every little thing.