Anyone else struggling with Infertility?

After seven years if trying I had my miracle for about 6 weeks. I just got home from having emergency surgery to remove my tubal pregnancy.

I just can't believe it... I lost my miracle baby.

I've never been pregnant before so everyone keeps telling me it's a good thing, well I hope it doesn't take another 7 years to get another miracle.
 
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i am so so sorry!
 
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I am sooo sorry.
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I hope things happen faster this time around, and I am here to talk if you need it, Your emotions will probably be quite crazy for about a month, I know mine were.

I'm a little worried about a tubal pregnancy myself. I am 8 days into my 2 week wait after using Clomid, and I have a Dull ache in my lower right abdomen, almost like a pulling feeling. I plan to see how I feel in the morning, and call my OB if needed.
 
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I am sooo sorry.
hugs.gif
I hope things happen faster this time around, and I am here to talk if you need it, Your emotions will probably be quite crazy for about a month, I know mine were.

I'm a little worried about a tubal pregnancy myself. I am 8 days into my 2 week wait after using Clomid, and I have a Dull ache in my lower right abdomen, almost like a pulling feeling. I plan to see how I feel in the morning, and call my OB if needed.

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Oh I have so been there. My heart aches reading y'all's stories because I felt that pain too. I got pregnant at 18 and had a miscarriage. It happened for a reason and I was defiantly not ready, so although it makes me sad, I am ok with it. Fast forward to me being married in June of 2002 and us never using any kind of preventative measures. It just never happened. I charted and did temps and lost 70lbs. Finally they diagnosed me with PCOS. I was on metformin for 4 months and we just moved into my in-laws house in Jan of 06 to start saving up for the adoption process. In Feb of 06 I found out I were pregnant with our first. All of those months charting and crying when each month I was given the proof that I wasn't pregnant melted away. I know it's easy to get bogged down, but don't forget you love the other person involved here. It should be fun, not work. I started treating it like work and had a lot to work on to make us more sound again. I really figured that any other kids would be just as hard, but amazingly we found out in early 2008 that I was pregnant with our second. It is possible to get through this. Talk to your doctor, if you don't like what they have to say, find another (that's what I did). If you have had problems with irregular or missed cycles, pains, heavy mood swings, depression, difficulty loosing weight, and or excess hair, talk to your doctor about PCOS. I don't have all those symptoms, but PCOS is a tricky thing and you don't have to have them all. I have a fiend who is a nurse who told me about it because she found out she had it, but it was too late for her to have kids. Don't be afraid to talk about different fertility treatments. And defiantly don't be afraid to look into adoption or foster care. Any child can say they have parents, only a few can say their parents picked them.
 
Tomorrow will be my IUI. I'm nervous. Hopefully it goes well. Last Wednesday I had 4 follicles (20, 13, 13 and 5). She didn't give me a trigger just had me test with OPKs. I'm afraid that I already Oed since I also chart and my temp went high today. Hopefully there is still a chance to try to catch an egg.
 

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