Anyone else struggling with Infertility?
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I was dianosed with pcos and was sent on my way. I had no idea what it was until later. I thought ok they will give me a pill and things will be fine. I had no clue. the doctor was too busy taking personal calls on his cell phone to explain to me what was going on. tried everything under the sun.
Fast forward 1st husband had a kidney transplant. I tought nothing of it. asked him before we got married is everything OK. he said yes the doctor gave him a clean bill of health. I was marrying him soo why wouldn't I take him at his word We got married he was taking predisone-steroid.
2 years into it nothing even taking clomifine nothing finally some one said urologist. His Test came back-I asked how many? nurse said none, what! Repeated the test zip 0 nada none. He lied......... It was like someone had died..............I left work that day........stuned dazed and had been lied too.
Turns out there was some stuff going on that I had no clue about. I was money pot and an insurance policy I was played out as long and as far has he could ride me...
had a nervous breakdown, lost my job, found my current husband had went on a diet of pepsi and a cheese burger a day. living here and there. Found out a month later I was pregnant. Hes now 12 and I had him at 30. My sister had her second child at 40 today on one overy.
There is light some times your so far down in the hole you feel you can't see it and then you relizes you ve been looking at your feet. keep your chin up and quit worring about the age thing.....Its all in Gods time.
ps 13 years later only the one son.
Fast forward 1st husband had a kidney transplant. I tought nothing of it. asked him before we got married is everything OK. he said yes the doctor gave him a clean bill of health. I was marrying him soo why wouldn't I take him at his word We got married he was taking predisone-steroid.
2 years into it nothing even taking clomifine nothing finally some one said urologist. His Test came back-I asked how many? nurse said none, what! Repeated the test zip 0 nada none. He lied......... It was like someone had died..............I left work that day........stuned dazed and had been lied too.
Turns out there was some stuff going on that I had no clue about. I was money pot and an insurance policy I was played out as long and as far has he could ride me...
had a nervous breakdown, lost my job, found my current husband had went on a diet of pepsi and a cheese burger a day. living here and there. Found out a month later I was pregnant. Hes now 12 and I had him at 30. My sister had her second child at 40 today on one overy.
There is light some times your so far down in the hole you feel you can't see it and then you relizes you ve been looking at your feet. keep your chin up and quit worring about the age thing.....Its all in Gods time.
ps 13 years later only the one son.
Thank you.
I've been delt a bad hand and I just make the best of it. I describe the pain as if griving for someone that died and the others do not understand. But I bet you do. I know how you feel. The only other advice is to enjoy life as it is and comunicate with your partner on how you feel. even he is not he is feeling something and it is a hit to his ego that he hasn't gotten you pregnant. Just love and enjoy each other nothing good comes by force. Make sure you not treating your Mr like he's a circus animal-ready to proform.Lol proformance anxiaty can affect things as well as stress-all those aaah look at that baby or this baby can really get to a man.
I used to only go in the mall in the side door to the store that I needed to go into just to avoid the "buggy" crowd. I knew where all the photo booth where and avoided those too.
A Baby's one blessing but don't forget about that man that is already in your life. ejoy adult things, adult outings and road trips see the sites get a room some miles away-enjoy.
Don't go ok its time lets go Iam 15 min into ovulation go go go . LOL it can get crazy fast because of our impatiance.
One thing my husband and I do is day trips together.craigslist posting pick ups and deliverys or to go cut firewood while the kid is in school. one night we went on a "date" sitter the whole works and a hotel room, no baby but it was a memorable night- we still smile at each other about it.
We didn't get too much time to do the adult stuff the only regret of having our son too soon in our relationship but he was a surprise.
I've been delt a bad hand and I just make the best of it. I describe the pain as if griving for someone that died and the others do not understand. But I bet you do. I know how you feel. The only other advice is to enjoy life as it is and comunicate with your partner on how you feel. even he is not he is feeling something and it is a hit to his ego that he hasn't gotten you pregnant. Just love and enjoy each other nothing good comes by force. Make sure you not treating your Mr like he's a circus animal-ready to proform.Lol proformance anxiaty can affect things as well as stress-all those aaah look at that baby or this baby can really get to a man.
I used to only go in the mall in the side door to the store that I needed to go into just to avoid the "buggy" crowd. I knew where all the photo booth where and avoided those too.
A Baby's one blessing but don't forget about that man that is already in your life. ejoy adult things, adult outings and road trips see the sites get a room some miles away-enjoy.
Don't go ok its time lets go Iam 15 min into ovulation go go go . LOL it can get crazy fast because of our impatiance.
One thing my husband and I do is day trips together.craigslist posting pick ups and deliverys or to go cut firewood while the kid is in school. one night we went on a "date" sitter the whole works and a hotel room, no baby but it was a memorable night- we still smile at each other about it.
We didn't get too much time to do the adult stuff the only regret of having our son too soon in our relationship but he was a surprise.
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Haven't had a chance to read the whole thread yet.. I will.
Just wanted to say- I've been there. I had to switch OB's twice to find one that took me seriously.
My first child- I was lucky- he was concieved on Clomid.
second son and baby daughter are both IVF babies.
I have stage 3-4 endometriosis. My tubes are completely blocked.
If anyone has questions feel free to PM me. Been through just about every test there is....
Just wanted to say- I've been there. I had to switch OB's twice to find one that took me seriously.
My first child- I was lucky- he was concieved on Clomid.
second son and baby daughter are both IVF babies.
I have stage 3-4 endometriosis. My tubes are completely blocked.
If anyone has questions feel free to PM me. Been through just about every test there is....
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when you get back on i would like to chat some more. my tubes are also blocked. every year that goes by without a pregnancy i feel like i'm dieing inside I will be 40 next year and i know i'm getting closer to that BIG SCARY M.
when you get back on i would like to chat some more. my tubes are also blocked. every year that goes by without a pregnancy i feel like i'm dieing inside I will be 40 next year and i know i'm getting closer to that BIG SCARY M.
Nava- Dr's said that my only chance of concieving was through IVF. Thankfully I live in MA where there is a mandate that insurance has to have inf coverage.
My tubes weren't blocked yet when I had my first son. When he was 1 1/2 I had an ovarian cyst rupture and it scarred my tubes.
My insurance approved 3 IVF cycles. DS2 is from cycle 1, cycle 2 failed, DD is from cycle 3.
My tubes weren't blocked yet when I had my first son. When he was 1 1/2 I had an ovarian cyst rupture and it scarred my tubes.
My insurance approved 3 IVF cycles. DS2 is from cycle 1, cycle 2 failed, DD is from cycle 3.
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