Anyone ready to ring in the new year...and lose weight/get fit?

[Kassaundra]

OHHHHHHH NOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!! Not only did I fall off the wagon today I landed on my head!!!!! My husband brought me my favorite ice cream Ben and Jerry's New york super chunk fudge!!!!!! There isn't enough yoga or cardio to right this wrong today!!!!!!!!! Evil grin ................................. But it is sooooo good.

 

[3goodeggs]

...but, once in a while you need to enjoy the simple goodness of chocolate.

 

[Renie'sPeeps]

Well.. I had a big fat juice barbque spare rib.... but I didn't have time to eat lunch today... so hopefully I won't pay too severly.

 

[vfem]

I did so flippin' good today, and got a lot done out in the yard to top it off. I had a banana for breakfast, had a salad with fat free raspberry walnut vinegarette (I cheated and had a few french fries my husband didn't want, but they were homemade), and then for dinner I had a Veggie Shrimp soup. It came out fantastic in the crockpot full of potatoes, carrots, onions, tomatoes & veggie stock. I did jumbo shrimp, so I only got 3 shrimp in my bowl. And I had a whole wheat roll. Haven't been hungry since. Soooooooooo proud!

 

[oesdog]

Feeling really low right now.
I wore my lovely cream top and cardy last Sunday and my daughter told me I looked Fat in it.
This Sunday the family was over and the sun was shinning and DH said he would love to see me in a frock!
So I got out my lovely pale blue one I wore on holiday that he said he liked.

This morning our Wedding aniversary he took me aside and said you know that frock - it doesn;t look good on you. I think you put on weight since you wore it last it makes you look fat !!!!!!! Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

He is the one who feeds me all those cakes I don;t want!!!!

Oesdog

 

[annaraven]

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Oh honey. I'm sorry to hear that.

So now you have an opportunity to explain to him that he needs to stop feeding you all those cakes, so you can wear the frock and it'll look good on you! Maybe it'll get through to him finally.

 

[oesdog]

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Oh honey. I'm sorry to hear that.

So now you have an opportunity to explain to him that he needs to stop feeding you all those cakes, so you can wear the frock and it'll look good on you! Maybe it'll get through to him finally.

Thanks Annaraven - did you get the PM I sent you with pics of the kids etc?

Oesdog

 

[Renie'sPeeps]

I think that would have broke my heart right in half.... I am soo sorry. It's time for them to stop shoving food in your face.
<hugs>

 

[Kassaundra]

oesdog

I'm sorry, that is so horrible esp. since they are the ones who keep insisting you eat all the bad food!!!!

I think it gives you opportunity though, up till now you have just went along w/ their food offers b/c you didn't want to offend them, and after all they are just "being nice and showing how much they love you", but now you can in good conscience "just say no" and stick to it. If it hurts their feelings at first, well at least they won't keep doing it, you need to stand up for yourself, and if they are giving food out of "showing their love" then they can do something that will really show their love and support you in your attempt at being healthier, like go for a walk w/ you, or help you find good reciepes that are healthy and will help you meet your goals. Personally their behaviour has sounded more passive aggressive to me, but I held my typing fingers until now.

 

[oesdog]

Thanks everyone I am feeling very very depressed right now - not easy!
It is hard when the very folk who give you the "bad" food tell you your looking FAT!!!!!!

Oesdog - Want to cry nothing fits anymore or looks nice. Even when I try to look nice!