ThreeGoodEggs<< yep what she said.. YOU have to fill the tank to make the car run. I have done many diets over the yrs.. lost as much as 81 lbs in 5 months. It took me a couple of yrs but I did put it all back on then had another baby... added even more pounds on... But that's another story.. You do more harm than good to your body when you don't treat it right. This time around... I am not dieting... I am not going hungry.... I am eating sensable...healthy foods.. and the weight is coming off. I have no time table... that helps take the pressure off. I am doing this for my health.. for quality of life. There is no shame in eating IF you are truly hungry...just make smarter choices.