I suspect the e-bay seller did get some nasty flack after the interactions between you and she was posted here on BYC - I don't have a doubt in my mind that other Araucana and Ameraucana breeders swept in to "set her to right." You may have been careful and concerned about what and how you informed her, but I know FROM EXPERIENCE that there are many who participate in this forum who will lay into a breeder with little to no care. At this point, she is responding to more than just Lane's shared comments.