At four weeks old there might or might not be a noticeable difference in size between a male and female. If there is it won't be much, certainly not 3 times as big. There is something else going on. What are your other breeds? This sounds like you might have all bantams except the one big chick. Where did you get them? is it possible the others are bantam? Was this chick always a lot bigger? Might it be older than the others?
Often it's difficult to tell the differences in sex until they get older. Usually around five weeks differences start to show up but even then with some it can take a lot longer. Once they feather in pure barred birds will give you an extra clue. Since the males have two copies of the barred gene and the females only have one, males will be lighter in color than the darker females. At four weeks they should be feathered in enough to tell the difference but you may need a bit of experience.
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