Assess thyself

[Kiki]

I don't have potential. Sorry for complaining here, I shouldn't be.

You can complain where ever you want.
If you want a different outcome or feeling you better start doing things differently.

 

[CarpCharacin]

The data indicates that an ideal outcome will always be out of reach, because of my personality, and the stable nature of personality.

 

[CarpCharacin]

I'm really sorry to those who have had the misfortune of interacting with me, and to those who will have the misfortune of interacting with me in the future. I truly am sorry.

 

[Sapphire Sebright]

I'm really sorry to those who have had the misfortune of interacting with me, and to those who will have the misfortune of interacting with me in the future. I truly am sorry.

Don't be. Do not be sorry for reaching out and talking to people. Do not apologize for that. Life is a thing that we all have to go through, and we meet other people along the way -- it is literally impossible to go through life without interacting with people. Don't apologize for something that you can't control or prevent. Ever.
I'm glad that I've interacted with you, personally. And I mean that. I'm sure that there are others, too.
It's only a misfortune to those who make it one.

 

[Kiki]

I'm really sorry to those who have had the misfortune of interacting with me, and to those who will have the misfortune of interacting with me in the future. I truly am sorry.

Forget about what the data says.
Make your own stats.
Do stuff differently and you will get a different outcome.

 

[Sapphire Sebright]

To some people, I'll bet that I'm downright infuriating and unbearable.
I don't talk to those people. It hurts to be disliked, but you need to just not care. It's their opinion of you, their judgement -- not the entire population's.

 

[CarpCharacin]

I still think it's something that I should apologize for, even if it's somewhat unavoidable, because I feel guilty that people have had to interact with someone who has such a poor personality. I also feel very, very guilty for being a waste of resources, and those resources do include my organs.

 

[Sapphire Sebright]

I still think it's something that I should apologize for, even if it's somewhat unavoidable, because I feel guilty that people have had to interact with someone who has such a poor personality. I also feel very, very guilty for being a waste of resources, and those resources do include my organs.

I don't find your personality to be poor. Also, you're not a waste of resources -- very, very few people are, and those who fall into that category are far worse people than you. You're not someone who betrays trust for fun. You're not some serial rapist or pedophile. You don't harm others for enjoyment or kill people because it's amusing to you. You're not a despicable person.
You're not a waste of resources -- the people who are would do any or all the above without any remorse. They wouldn't feel bad for having a bad personality.
You do, though, and you apologize about it even though you needn't apologize to others for having a "bad" personality.

 

[CarpCharacin]

I know I'm bad, for many reasons that I wouldn't like to get into here. But your reassurance is nice, even though I still feel the same way about myself.

 

[Sapphire Sebright]

I know I'm bad, for many reasons that I wouldn't like to get into here. But your reassurance is nice, even though I still feel the same way about myself.

Listen. If you ever need to talk about something -- ever, and I mean ever -- PM me. Or someone. Talk about it -- it helps.