Broken Heart...please help me. update pg 5

[joebryant]

Okay, Babychickfarmer, I'm going to give it to you straight from a used-to-be "cad". I lost count of all my one-night stands and long-term affairs that I just stopped calling or seeing with no explanation. I can only remember ONE of their last names, actually most of them I don't even remember their FIRST name (if I ever knew it). The one whom I remember most is from my early college years, the one whom I'd not called for a while; she approached my booth where I was sitting alone in the Union Building and proceded telling why SHE was breaking up with me. I was dumbfounded! I looked her straight in the eye, and lying through my teeth I told her that I had not called her because I cared so much for her that I caught myself wanting to marry her, and I wanted to be alone for a while to think about it, but that her words told me it would be best not to be too serious about her. She was stunned, but we did part as "friends" even though she admitted that she'd made a big mistake saying what she did.
Am I sorry for anything I did?
No.
Why am I not sorry?
Because I know girls/women do the same thing to some men whom they can manipulate, and I didn't want to argue with any of them or listen to what they thought or how they felt about breaking up. It's that simple.

Bachelorhood (male or female) is an unsafe period of kill or be killed time by/for a "cad".

 

[ChicknThief]

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Wow.... That was um... DESPICABLE.

So if someone else slapped an old lady, would you slap her too? Not wanting to be rude or hurt feelings, but seriously, I now feel ten times more afraid that every guy I see will be a "wolf".

 

[joebryant]

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Wow.... That was um... DESPICABLE.

Well, yeah, I guess it was, BUT I escaped unscathed, and that's more than most folks can say.

 

[ChicknThief]

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Wow.... That was um... DESPICABLE.

Well, yeah, I guess it was, BUT I escaped unscathed, and that's more than most folks can say.

How sad that you would call untold maliciousness and evil deeds unscathed. Not to mention how disgusting to come on here and post a cold, heartless account such as that in the middle of a young girls heartache! Shame on you! You can bet your life that there will be a price to pay. In fact, I believe it involves "wailing and knashing of teeth". Quite honestly I pity you. What a sad existence to live a life ruled by insecurity and revenge.

BabyChickFarmer: You have recieved lots of wonderful advice on this thread, as well as a good example of what a wolverine looks, smells, and sounds like. Beware who you entrust your heart to in the future. Once they have it, they can, and will, do as they please with it.

 

[joebryant]

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Well, yeah, I guess it was, BUT I escaped unscathed, and that's more than most folks can say.

Beware who you entrust your heart to in the future. Once they have it, they can, and will, do as they please with it.

Yep!

 

[riderbecky]

BabyChickFarmer and anyone else who is interested. There are a couple of good books out there that every female should read.

1. "The Game" is an account from a reporter who lived as a "player". He became very successful, getting many famous women, etc. It very clearly gives an idea of what guys are like and will try to get away with if they are allowed to. Mostly when I read it I just felt sorry for male kind that they felt they couldn't just be themselves around women and that we might genuinely like them and because we couldn't genuinely have feelings for them they told whatever lie they had to inorder to get to the "prize".

2. "He's just not that into you" I haven't read this one personally as I was married by the time it came out but the author was on Oprah and what he had to say made alot of sense. I'll be buying it soon for my teenage daughter.

There are alot of old time sayings that have been around forever and they are still true today. In short my advice is to not wear your heart on your sleeve and don't be giving away free milk. Mr. Right will wait for you because he'll know your Miss Right.

Feel happy soon...Becky

edited: cuz I can't type or proof read

 

[apbgv]

I have one bit of advice Girls you don't have to have a man in your life, you can do it on your own. If the right one comes along great!!!

but if not hey one can have a fulfilling life. I have a lot of male friends, I like being friends with guys, yeah sometimes I wish I would have found the one but at 41 I doubt it will happen. I own my own home, do what I want, and tada the best thing I get to have my critters with no one telling me NO MORE ha ha

 

[redhen]

Right!!..who needs a man!...

...well...that is, after they build you a nice coop...

 

[maplesky7]

our tongues are like a double edged sword and we shall die by the sword.

---I am reminded this very thing when some of us have decided to share about our personal lives.

also this was discussed in Church today:



let your no's be no's and your yes's be yes...anything else is from the evil one.

mathew 5:33


There is no such thing as a white lie...a small lie is the same as a big lie in God's eyes. It's all deception.



and forgive so that you may be forgiven.


It is required that we forgive but we will not forget, so that the same thing does not happen to us again.

You are a strong woman and you will go on in happiness and sorrow. And there is always light at the end of the tunnel.

Hugs to you lady friend.

Love in Christ,
Gretchen

 

[hypnofrogstevie]

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Hey! not all guys are bad