BYC Café

[Bunnylady]

glad the weekend was worth all your preparation. My brother in law used to raise champion walker coon hounds---what howlers!

Walker hound - now, that's a voice you'll never forget!

 

[Perris]

Good evening, Cafe'. Third day of field trial is completed. 3 days of rest, and we start all over again on Fri. 93 F today, and my dogs performed well. Will won the 13" class and Cry was back high in the 15 " class - did not win as his bracemate was a monster who destroyed the run and Cry is only 16 months old and not capable of dealing with such a partner. I was proud of my dogs, and the club did a great job of hosting this event.

have you seen this Sour?

 

[Shadrach]

Good morning Cafe.
Coffee is made.
Pretty warm here. Got a couple of days of pretty warm to go.
Still no rain. Incredible if you could have seen the cloud cover.

 

[DobieLover]

Morning Cafe. There is nothing good about it. But thanks for the hot coffee Shad. Maybe that will help.
The sh!t storm that has been brewing in the background with DHs family has exploded all over us. I texted DHs son yesterday morning to let him know that I activated the POA that his father and I had signed in Sept of 2017 and asked him to call our attorney as we assigned him monitor. I had to sign the consent form for DH as his legal representative for him to enter the open label study of the trial drug he was on.
I got a text in the afternoon from Jr stating he already has a POA with DH and our attorney is free to call him.
In reviewing my mother's POA (similar form would have been used for DH, same attorney prepared both) I see that there is a revocation clause in it revoking all prior POAs so that would make Jr's POA null and void. However, I need to wait for the attorney to call me back to confirm this as he has the original POA in his office. I don't have a copy but will be getting one today.
In the meantime, I tried to log into DHs account to show him how much money I've saved up for him and show him how he will still be able to put a little money aside each month even after paying for Nan. I couldn't access the account. Password changed. Couldn't reset the password on the account. User ID changed. We called the Credit Union. DH couldn't easily answer the security questions and the rep couldn't legally reset his account because of that and the POA on file with them regardless that he asked her to.
So now I have no way to access DHs money to pay for his share of the monthly living expenses, his medication or Nan.
Any decent POA has a clause in it stating that the it can be revoked if the best interests of the principal are not being honored. I don't see how anything Jr has done is in the best interest of his father.
This is such an awful situation that I've been put in and now I must focus all my efforts to correct it. I'm working on about 2 hours of sleep.
Oh, and just ensure my utter misery, Bella snapped the nail off her dew claw yesterday before we discovered all of this lovely behavior of his son. The last dog I had that lost a nail off the toe had periosteal reactive bone cells and it was recommended that her toe be amputated and it was. I hope it's nothing like that and just a simple injury. Still. Don't need it. Don't need ANY of it.

 

[sourland]

Good morning, Cafe, and thanks Shad.

@DobieLover so very sad that you have to deal with all of this.

 

[aart]

The sh!t storm that has been brewing in the background with DHs family has exploded all over us.

OhFu**!!!
Wishing you all the strength and savvy(I know you already have it) to nip those rats in the a$$!!

 

[DobieLover]

@DobieLover so very sad that you have to deal with all of this.

It truly is and I've balled my eyes out over it between being livid with his kids for their deceitful, disrespectful and hurtful behavior. I don't see how I could ever forgive what they've done or ever come remotely close to trusting them at all. Needless to say, I don't ever want to be in their presence again as they've done nothing to help an already difficult situation. I am literally physically ill over it. I feel absolutely horrible.
And poor DH is caught in the middle. He doesn't need this any more than I do.

 

[cheepteach]

OhFu**!!!
Wishing you all the strength and savvy(I know you already have it) to nip those rats in the a$$!!

go all kung foo on their a$$es

 

[Bunnylady]

*sigh* There's an internet meme from an anime parody, summing up the attitude of an entitled rich character - "screw the rules, I have money" (also an ebonic version, "screw da rules, I gots money"). I'm afraid when you described DH's sister a while back, that's where my mind went . . . . . Sounds like it may fit the whole tribe.

I still want to believe that they think they are protecting him, not just their inheritance, but it absolutely makes me that they think they need to protect him from you - which is the only possible reason I can see for what they are doing. This is just despicable.

 

[DobieLover]

And just like that, the worry and nausea evaporated. My attorney, Jon, emailed me back at 8:00 a.m. sharp and asked me to call him which I did at 8:00 and 10 seconds... He answered the phone "well that was fast".

Our POA absolutely revokes the one that DH did with Jr 15 months prior.
I also mentioned to Jon (who of course already knows this) that the primary duty of the POA is to make decisions that are in the best interest of the principle and then explained what happened with the CU. That action alone is in NO WAY in DHs best interest and could have his POA revoked even without the one we have. I like to make these statements to fire him up too.

I've used this attorney for too many transactions to remember. He is honest and thorough and he knows me well enough that we communicate effectively. He knows that when I get fired up, he is to be my AK-47. Well after our conversation he has aimed himself at Jr. and loaded the mag. He's just waiting for me to pull the trigger. That will happen AFTER we pick up the original POA from Jon and present it to the CU and I secure his money IF it's even there. We will be opening a new account for him and transferring all his money there and then I'm securing the snot out of it.

How do you like me NOW, Jr?? Ha! Ha ha HA!