Originally Posted by ronott1 
Hi Amy, Chooklet and MrsMoonCat,
When I read the original post, I thought she meant that the future Spouse would want or support the desire to have animals and a Farm type of life. It is nice on a Ranch to have someone help you out and either like what you like or help.
When my middle daughter said she wanted a horse when she was older I told her she needed to get a good education and a Job that paid well. It is important for independence!
Gotta get busy,
That's pretty much what I meant. I was rather surprised to see how picked apart my statement got. She talks about getting married and having lots of kids too. And being married to a cowboy. I don't tell my kids one way or another what they have to do later in life.
Hope everyone is having a nice weekend
[/quote] My daughter said she was going to marry a Fireman as long as I can remember. She even got a fireplug tattoo when she turned 18. I told her she was destined to marry a cop with that tattoo. Everyone in town knew she was going to marry a firefighter so when our good friend, the Fire Chief hooked her up (after dating many a firefighter) she finally married one! Some kids just know their path and some dream out loud and end up with something different. It's just important they dream! I could listen to my 4 year old granddaughter tell me how she's going to marry Justin Bieber all day long! Of course she also tells me that she has four boyfriends. Two are her brother's, one is Justin Bieber and other is the neighbor kid....oh, and she's going to be a butterfly when she grows up.

Hi Amy, Chooklet and MrsMoonCat,
When I read the original post, I thought she meant that the future Spouse would want or support the desire to have animals and a Farm type of life. It is nice on a Ranch to have someone help you out and either like what you like or help.
When my middle daughter said she wanted a horse when she was older I told her she needed to get a good education and a Job that paid well. It is important for independence!
Gotta get busy,
That's pretty much what I meant. I was rather surprised to see how picked apart my statement got. She talks about getting married and having lots of kids too. And being married to a cowboy. I don't tell my kids one way or another what they have to do later in life.
Hope everyone is having a nice weekend
[/quote] My daughter said she was going to marry a Fireman as long as I can remember. She even got a fireplug tattoo when she turned 18. I told her she was destined to marry a cop with that tattoo. Everyone in town knew she was going to marry a firefighter so when our good friend, the Fire Chief hooked her up (after dating many a firefighter) she finally married one! Some kids just know their path and some dream out loud and end up with something different. It's just important they dream! I could listen to my 4 year old granddaughter tell me how she's going to marry Justin Bieber all day long! Of course she also tells me that she has four boyfriends. Two are her brother's, one is Justin Bieber and other is the neighbor kid....oh, and she's going to be a butterfly when she grows up.