Veins and details don't show up nearly as well over the internet even with very good pictures and day 4 or 5 is the beginning of when you can usually see veins in light eggs. I wouldn't make any decisions on an egg that early even if I saw it in person. Usually I make decisions on day 10 with light shelled eggs since by then it's usually pretty obvious if one has done nothing. Dark shelled eggs are a different matter and you may never see anything in them.
As for candling just make sure you don't have anything potentially harmful on your hands (remember egg shells are porous), don't turn them too quickly, and of course don't drop them. If you aren't too rough about it then direction or amount you turn them really doesn't matter so long as you aren't dealing with eggs that have loose air sacs from shipping or rough treatment floating around in there. Rolling a loose air sac all over the place does not do good things for developing eggs. Otherwise I've candled eggs daily and had them hatch just fine.