Since being married I have lost 3 cats....
My DH grew up having outdoor cats. I, on the other, only having indoor cats. I feel they are safe from predators (like fishers), they don't get fleas, worms, and other parasites like outdoor cats do and they can still live and happy life that is longer than alot of outdoor cats. (The exception is a good barn cat that stays or near the barn)
However since being married my DH and his mother have told me how mean I am to not let my cats outside "cats normal walk for miles in the wild, it's cruel to keep them contained inside. they are so much happier outside...etc...etc...etc." So the next thing I know my DH is letting my cats outside when I am not around. Then the cats decide they like it better outside and wont shut-up inside and show their disconentment by puking in my shoe. So I started relenting and say ok, if I am outside with them to keep an eye on them, they can go out. Needless to say my DH took that as the ok to let them run free at anytime. I now have no more cats because they have all disappeared.... Go figure, with coyotes, fishers, foxes, racoons, and God only knows what else in the woods behind my house.
Long story short, I agree with you deerman, about keeping our pets contained. If I ever get another cat I will kick my DH butt if he even THINKS of opening that door and letting it out.

My DH grew up having outdoor cats. I, on the other, only having indoor cats. I feel they are safe from predators (like fishers), they don't get fleas, worms, and other parasites like outdoor cats do and they can still live and happy life that is longer than alot of outdoor cats. (The exception is a good barn cat that stays or near the barn)
However since being married my DH and his mother have told me how mean I am to not let my cats outside "cats normal walk for miles in the wild, it's cruel to keep them contained inside. they are so much happier outside...etc...etc...etc." So the next thing I know my DH is letting my cats outside when I am not around. Then the cats decide they like it better outside and wont shut-up inside and show their disconentment by puking in my shoe. So I started relenting and say ok, if I am outside with them to keep an eye on them, they can go out. Needless to say my DH took that as the ok to let them run free at anytime. I now have no more cats because they have all disappeared.... Go figure, with coyotes, fishers, foxes, racoons, and God only knows what else in the woods behind my house.
Long story short, I agree with you deerman, about keeping our pets contained. If I ever get another cat I will kick my DH butt if he even THINKS of opening that door and letting it out.
