I went through a bankruptcy when my son was 3; my ex and I were getting divorced and decided since neither of us could pay off everything it would be the best route to go. It would have been if he hadn't hidden a bunch of stuff from me and then opened new accounts right afterwards and put my name on them as you can do so easily on an online applications. The rules have changed a lot for bankruptcy rulings, you really need to talk to a lawyer before you make this decision. Most have a first time free when you go in the talk to them. One of my friends who has been a stay at home mom for most of her life just went through bankruptcy and they took her car because she doesn't work outside the home, but left him his because he does work outside. They were both paid for, they made them sell hers and use the money towards the debts first. They didn't lose their home which was already paid for but in her name only because she inherited it from her mom and never had him added. When they went to the discharge hearing almost every debtor showed up and contested the bankruptcy, when I went to mine, none showed up, but now they are more desperate to recover what they can.
Credit counseling, to me, IN MY OWN PERSONAL OPINION is a load of garbage. A very close friend of mine signed up with the Credit Counseling service at the YWCA which only charged them $7 a month and then took $375 a month and paid her creditors. Her original debt was $27,000, after paying for 10 years, she paid $45,000 to these people and was still $19,000 in debt because they YWCA only got them to drop the percentage rate by 2 points, and they were unable to stop some of her creditors from adding late fees, over the limit fees, etc. Now those laws have changed too and it would have had her out of debt sooner, but I still don't trust them. She stopped paying them and now the creditors she paid so much money to over those years have started harassing her again on the phone and in person.
I suggest the bankruptcy if it doesn't mean you'll lose your home and such, because contrary to popular belief YES they can take your home. If the court feels you don't need to live in a $125,000 house and could live in a $50,000 house, they make you sell yours and put the money towards your debt and buy something smaller with the money that is left. The laws have changed dramatically in the past 5 years, look into yours very closely before you make a decision.