yay!!! Wendi is back!!!
... some times i miss a few days checking in but im chasing kids and such.. and as i mentioned before getting ready for the great move. so sorry if i dont check in every day.

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Oh, I wanted to say.....a good therapist is priceless......if the first one doesn't seem to help, find a different one.
And super good for you, working so hard for your marriage. Most good marriages are good because both parties put in oodles of work.
At least for me, if you can push through to the other side, it is wonderful how much better everything is. All of that struggle helps make the bond better. It is just the pushing through that is so difficult.
It is all explained in my reply pm.I so miss you guys!!!!!!!!!!![]()
Thank you!!!!!!
Luke I think you came on while I was pm ing you
why aren't you in school????????????![]()
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It is late and I must get some sleep. I will come back tomorrow I promise, probably around 9 or 930 am eastern
Hope all you kids have a great night!!!!!
Chick![]()
I don't mind at all-
I am an open book, and I am one brutally honest person at times! I do appreciate that you all have asked about me, and I want everyone to know that i am ok.
In a nutshell........my DH was very abused in every imaginable way as a kid. He had dealt with it well up till about 5 years ago. Then I started to notice that everytime things went our way and we started to get ahead, he would do something to destroy it for himself, and in turn for the family as well. None of it directed at the family. Now the whole thing has come to a head, so to speak, and me being the fighter that I am, I got to a point where I just couldn't take it any longer and I started trying to fight against it. That just made it worse, and his attitude got worse. Now we are going to get some family counseling which he would not do before, but he is willing now, and we both want to keep our family together.One of the saddest things I have ever seen is a truly good and talented man be reduced to trying to destroy himself and not knowing how to stop it.![]()
This is a man who raised my older 2 kids like they were his own, and for 12 years has struggled to support all of us so that I could stay home and be available for our autistic daughter.
He is not turning to drugs or alcohol, so that is a plus, but that is what is going on.
Please know that I miss and love you all so much!!!!!
I was hoping that someone would be here in the chat, but, alas, It is not that way-
I will try to come back on tomorrow and chat some!!!
Thanks Friends
Love, Hugs, and Kisses-
Chick
I agree totally with you Alaskan! I have been thru many therapists in my family trying to find one that fits! Hang in there Wendi!Oh, I wanted to say.....a good therapist is priceless......if the first one doesn't seem to help, find a different one.
And super good for you, working so hard for your marriage. Most good marriages are good because both parties put in oodles of work.
At least for me, if you can push through to the other side, it is wonderful how much better everything is. All of that struggle helps make the bond better. It is just the pushing through that is so difficult.
Hi Bama! We have missed you! Great family times are more important! Have fun and y'all have a great safe 4th as well!Good morning. Sorry I have been missing out on this thread. DS left yesterday to go back home to Ft Lewis. It was a wonderful couple of weeks. Went to Ft Benning to see him graduate from airborne school then he came home with us on leave. I sure do miss him. DH DS and DD built a coop for my Legbar trio last week. I picked up 30 Silkie eggs yesterday when we were in Georgia dropping DS at the ATL airport. The rest of this month will be company visiting from Maine and several short trips. DD school starts back in only six weeks! Summer break seems so short now. Hope all y'all have a safe 4th.