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Bit of a rant...

A friend of mine has said, actually said the words, "God is responsible for my health."

I feel I can no longer talk about anything to do with what I eat, or what exercise I get, or supplements I might take and how they have affected me, or anything to do with health or health care or doctors or medical care in general, as she takes it as an assault on "what works for her." She said she felt I was "trying to push my way on her."

So the subject of anything to do with health is off the table. Along with politics, religion (except in the most passing way, like, "how do you like your new pastor?"), and gardening (they're about to give up, as it's "too much work").

I'm going to let her lead the conversations/texts from now on. We can talk about the weather and our dogs. :rolleyes: And maybe recipes, as long as I don't tout any health benefits, I suppose.
 
So my brother died yesterday. And honestly idk how I feel. We weren't close, we didn't grow up together and he resented me because my dad thinks I literally hung the moon. He always talked shit about me and my fiance (whom he met once) and tho he suffered from bipolar he had every option to get treatment but was always the victim because of his narcissistic personality as well. I guess I'm sorta numb to it all because he's caused nothing but chaos of epic proportion in my family for over 10 years and I stopped caring a long time ago.
 
So my brother died yesterday. And honestly idk how I feel. We weren't close, we didn't grow up together and he resented me because my dad thinks I literally hung the moon. He always talked shit about me and my fiance (whom he met once) and tho he suffered from bipolar he had every option to get treatment but was always the victim because of his narcissistic personality as well. I guess I'm sorta numb to it all because he's caused nothing but chaos of epic proportion in my family for over 10 years and I stopped caring a long time ago.
:hugs
 
So my brother died yesterday. And honestly idk how I feel. We weren't close, we didn't grow up together and he resented me because my dad thinks I literally hung the moon. He always talked shit about me and my fiance (whom he met once) and tho he suffered from bipolar he had every option to get treatment but was always the victim because of his narcissistic personality as well. I guess I'm sorta numb to it all because he's caused nothing but chaos of epic proportion in my family for over 10 years and I stopped caring a long time ago.
I feel for you. That is very complicated.
I think you need to allow yourself to feel both grief and maybe relief at the same time and without guilt.
 

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