I can so relate to the OP. I'm not overly fond of most of my family either and, trust me, I have my reasons. I only get along with a very select few and they're the only ones with my address and phone number. If the hated bunch can't understand the word "NO" when it comes to my information? I give them Dial-A-Prayer's phone number instead. The ONLY reason I tolerated the relations as long as I did was for the benefit of my Grandmother (the woman who raised me). She passed away a year ago Dec 29th. I miss her so very, very much!! But no contact with those I can't stand ever since her demise has made my life all that much better!
Cruel? Mean? Nasty attitude? You might think I am all those and more, but try dealing with my family for awhile and you'll understand where I'm coming from. In my experience, blood is not "thicker than water"! Anyone who really knows me will tell you I have a big heart, generous, and that I will do anything within my power to help those less fortunate. My blood relations are a self-centered, spiteful, and hateful bunch. Boggles my mind that my Grandmother - a loving, caring woman- was related to them.
My FRIENDS are my family and I'd rather spend time with them!!
Cruel? Mean? Nasty attitude? You might think I am all those and more, but try dealing with my family for awhile and you'll understand where I'm coming from. In my experience, blood is not "thicker than water"! Anyone who really knows me will tell you I have a big heart, generous, and that I will do anything within my power to help those less fortunate. My blood relations are a self-centered, spiteful, and hateful bunch. Boggles my mind that my Grandmother - a loving, caring woman- was related to them.
My FRIENDS are my family and I'd rather spend time with them!!