SOOO Dh has a sis that has step kids. We took in the oldest when he was 17 so he could finish school here. (They have moved those kids clear across the country 14 times in the last 6 or 7 years.) He finished high school and joined the army. No issue with that. Issue with they never made good on the 200 a month for feeding and housing the young man. (We bought clothing and entertainment for him at our expense too.) She calls up yesterday and asked if the youngest one could do the same. WOW. Made me so . It is not like we are made of $$$$$$. We live very frugally and on a tight budget. I think she asks too much. She says they are moving back up here in the spring. NOT staying here NO WAY!!!! Her hubby don't think he should work and makes us all NUTS. I am wondering if I should sell the dang house and move to Montana. DH is not pleased with her either. Ok mini rant over .... maybe. I been fuming all day over this.