The thing that really burns my buiscuits here is that from reading this thread I have gathered that you got the donk from the prior farmer when you got your home or moved in maybe? You said that he was going to shoot it because it was mating with the cattle correct?
To me that says that you are trying to sell a untamed donk for $400 that you probably got for free... That isn't right, and I cannot believe you guys let him go without food for 3 days. It's awful. I can see this thread getting locked down soon because people are getting heated but this is inexcusable and I hope to god that if you have chickens (you are on BYC afterall) and other animals that they are being fed, and your children, etc.
You never told us if he has shelter either?
As for not being able to make it on $600 a month, I know I certainly couldn't... My house is $1600.00 a month, then we spend about $550.00 on groceries, $110.00 for phone/cable/net, $100.00 on electric, $220.00 for cleaning supplies and feed for animals, and I don't want to know how much we spend for gas but it's in the $200.00 range for a month. When we need oil it's going for over $220.00 per 100 gallons right now. And we have a propane stove, we fill the tanks every 6 months and it's about $300.00...
And we're a family of 5, my husband works two jobs and we do get some gov. assistance.
I certainly wouldn't be keeping an animal around that wasn't contributing to the farm. I refuse to actually.
I had never thought for a moment that you guys were trying to SELL him. I just try to see everyone as being a good person, and trust me, I KNOW what it's like to need to sell something to make bill money. But sell some jewlery, or a game system, or a have a yard sale, or something. Don't try to make a fast buck off of a living creature that is probably very lonely and miserable.
Just please, give him away. Who care's what your husband says. You know it's the right thing to to, deep down, I know you do. Give him away and let him move on into another life with someone else, or move on into a better place in heaven. He's been screwed enough by the human race that he isn't socialized or friendly, no need for you to add to it. Let him move on.
You've heard of Karma right?