You're so right! When I was a kid I was expected to take responsibility for my own education, my parents were not bribing me to do homework or checking it over. They did go over my report cards, and any time they were not up to snuff my other activities were put on hold until my grades improved.
I do think it's a lot more difficult for kids and parents today, because in most cases parents have to be at work when the kids get home from school, plus there is so much more effortless entertainment competing for the kids' attention.
I also believe there's more "anti-education" sentiment in this country than in others, too much attitude of "educated people are all elitists who talk down to us hard-working folks" as well as, "I went to 'the school of hard knocks' and that taught me more than any fancy college could do" type of attitudes.
It will take a lot to change these attitudes, but we need to learn to value education for itself, to value knowing things and understanding things, instead of just expecting a good education to be some sort of stepping-stone on the path to monetary riches.
Sports and other activities definitely have their place in schools - just not according to the hyper-competitive way they are done today. Kids who aren't into competition get pushed to the sidelines, then they miss out on getting any kind education for their bodies and muscles - this lack, I believe, adds to the prevalence of depression among young people.
I wish every school in our country required solid basics in reading, writing, critical research, history, math, biology, chemistry, physics, economics. As well as requiring every kid to take a foreign language, do some kind of sport (whether it's being a starter on the team, doing yoga or dance, hiking, geocaching around their city) do some form of art or craft (drawing, acting, a musical instrument, knitting, sewing, photography, making tik-tok videos) and some project related to agriculture (training their dog, participating in a community garden, composting kitchen scraps to raise a tomato plant in their window).
Of course our schools are massively underfunded and unbalanced in their priorities. With different priorities, and partnerships with community groups (also massively underfunded) our kids could have educations that prepare them as well as inspire them.
Lots of wishing, I guess.