I'm so sorry, CC. Loss of relationships may truly be this disease's highest and most painful cost.I'm sad too. I can't talk to my youngest sister any more. She was closest to me in age, spent much of our childhood together and we always got along well till the subject comes up.
I hadn't spoken to her in about 6 months time when I called her. It was a good conversation till I told her that my wife was sick and we were concerned it was Covid-19. She put me on hold and went to get a list of treatments I should give her.
I waited and when she listed them I knew right away where she got the list. I heard the words hydroxychloroquine, hot pepper, garlic, alcohol, etc..
I interrupted her and said, "I'm not going to give her anything that liar suggested."
She immediately hung up and won't talk to me again. It is a shame when you can't have a discussion with your sister.
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I equate this situation with when kids experience war. Like that in Afghanistan, Syria, Iraq, South Sudan, Northern Ireland and Beirut.
I had a "War and Peace" professor who wrote a book about children of war, studying the effects of the Ireland and Beirut conflicts. One thing I remember from one of his lectures was that the children he interviewed said they couldn't sleep unless they hear bombing because that was normal for them.
You look at survivors of the holocaust and the killing fields of the Khmer Rouge and in adulthood, they seem pretty well adjusted. So there is always hope.
