Mrs. Glassman :
I have not read the whole thread...I did see that it's about to be closed, and I want to say about crime & the economy, that the thing that broke my heart the MOST...was some footage of the aftermath of KATRINA.
The news was airing footage of people looting stores. Some left with TV's & high dollar items.
I saw a lady run out of the store with DIAPERS under each arm. Baby diapers.
I broke down & cried right there. How sad & deperate do you have to be to steal diapers for your baby.
That's all I'm going to say on that, because the thought has me crying again.
Freaking BABY DIAPERS!
I heard reports about this as well. To me, the tv takers were just plain out thieves as one doesn't need a tv. But if you need food, baby supplies, medicines, etc. and there is no store owner available to pay, what should you do? The items are not yours, very true, but you couldn't pay if you wanted to. Desperate times... I hope to never be in such a situation but if worse came to worse, I would probably hold out as long as possible, then take what I need, and make restitution later. In the chinese fairytales I've read, food thieves were recognized as stealing out of need and were treated much less harshly than 'stuff' thieves even if the latter claimed to be selling the items for food, etc. They often had happy endings to those stories.
And yes, as a cloth diapering breast feeding mother, I know that disposable diapers and formula are often not 'needs' but the mother would have to steal pins and such to make cloth and her milk is probably long gone.