When we decided to get chickens, and were thinking about whether or not to also raise them for meat, I was very wary until I read Animal, Vegetable, Miracle by Barbara Kingsolver. She has a great chapter on harvesting chickens for meat, and it really helped me see that it was okay. We still have not gotten to the harvesting (chickies still too young) and I know it will be extremely difficult and emotional, but I think that if it isn't difficult, then there is something wrong with us. Anyone who eats meat is responsible for an animal's death, but at least I know mine had a good healthy, happy life.