Was getting some stuff done yesterday and DD was hanging around. She's 9. She got to talking about my GM and asking what we did together when I was younger. That brought back a great store of wonderful memories. So I told her about the things we did. Her eyes just lit up thinking about those things. I asked her if she thought about doing those things with my mom. Nope. Why not? She left without telling me good bye at the fair. Looks like that bridge is burned. How can I be both parent and grandparent to my kids?