I'm sorry you've had so much conflict in your household over this. That can be really miserable. Any species that normally is allowed freedom and then is suddenly locked up can produce a lot of unpleasant vocalizations. It could just as easily happen with a dog, cat, parrot or human. Between the conflict over the yard, confinement and the new noise, you certainly have your share of irritations and then some. I do think you have some options.
If you don't want to have chickens, that's certainly one option. You could always try posting in the buy/sell/trade/give away section, if you haven't already, to rehome your chickens.
If you do want to have chickens and your SO is pretty much making the decisions about the chickens, then I think you need to have your SO decide exactly what is going to be allowed for your chickens and stick to it. People and pets do best with a certain amount of routine.
You need to decide if they are going to be allowed out of the run at all. If they are, then what time of day and for how long. I would suggest once a day, at the end of the day, if you are going to do this. That way, they will naturally return to the pen when it's time to roost. During the day, they could have treats to give them something to do. A tray of growing grass, some type of produce that is in one large piece, that they have to peck apart, possibly hanging, something like that. Basically a diversion that they can look forward to, that keeps them busy for some of the time. A dust bath, if they don't already have one. Over time, they should settle down, once you are consistent and they know what the schedule is.
If you or your SO is unwilling to go through this process, even for a short time, you also have the option of rehoming these chickens and starting over with different chickens, that do not have free ranging expectations.
Can I ask what the chickens were doing that was ruining the yard? I do know the variety of things chickens are capable of doing, I was just wondering if it was a particular problem that started the trouble at your house.
I see that while I was typing this, the suggestion to rehome the SO came up. OK, that was my first thought, but I was too polite to say it. As long as you guys brought it up, though...
If you don't want to have chickens, that's certainly one option. You could always try posting in the buy/sell/trade/give away section, if you haven't already, to rehome your chickens.
If you do want to have chickens and your SO is pretty much making the decisions about the chickens, then I think you need to have your SO decide exactly what is going to be allowed for your chickens and stick to it. People and pets do best with a certain amount of routine.
You need to decide if they are going to be allowed out of the run at all. If they are, then what time of day and for how long. I would suggest once a day, at the end of the day, if you are going to do this. That way, they will naturally return to the pen when it's time to roost. During the day, they could have treats to give them something to do. A tray of growing grass, some type of produce that is in one large piece, that they have to peck apart, possibly hanging, something like that. Basically a diversion that they can look forward to, that keeps them busy for some of the time. A dust bath, if they don't already have one. Over time, they should settle down, once you are consistent and they know what the schedule is.
If you or your SO is unwilling to go through this process, even for a short time, you also have the option of rehoming these chickens and starting over with different chickens, that do not have free ranging expectations.
Can I ask what the chickens were doing that was ruining the yard? I do know the variety of things chickens are capable of doing, I was just wondering if it was a particular problem that started the trouble at your house.

I see that while I was typing this, the suggestion to rehome the SO came up. OK, that was my first thought, but I was too polite to say it. As long as you guys brought it up, though...
