I did not catch on that you are a female dealing with this.
Close your doors, windows and lock them.
Take your chickens to a safe place and your dog too.
I would have a serious talk with the wife of this guy if you say you are friends.
ANY MAN THAT SPEAKS TO A WOMAN IN THIS MANNER NEEDS TO BE REPORTED TO THE AUTHORITIES.
I apologize for my remarks earlier. I had no idea he was battering a woman.
My wife would have this guy in tears by the end of the day, but this is my wife. We call it a red head experience. However, she is armed and dangerous.
I have dealt with idiots like this, you should not have to.
Abolutety no one else needs to be involved except your female nieghbor (his wife) and the authorities.
Again, I apologize. Put some distance between you and your neighbor.