I knew what you meant. Having raised livestock as many years as I have, I have come across my fair share of "accidents". Do check out the diapers. I found them when my little dog Sammy had stroke or seizure and he was incontinent for a period of time. I was amazed at the variety. Some are for males and some are for females. Some are disposable and some are reusable and washable. For these you put a sanitary napkin inside. They come in a variety of colors and I found some really cute ones for females that have ruffles.