I have a garden. Why? I guess it's just because I enjoy eating fresh, home grown food. Gardening for me is a labor intensive hobby. Indo not claim it to be a relaxing hobby. In fact, I stress over it plenty. Weeding, planting, building beds, hoping for fair weather... it's work and stress. The benefit for me is in the only easy part of gardening: eating!
I will admit, it's not all stressful and hard work. Now that we have children, it's actually getting to be a little but more fun. My son is 4 so he gets to help plant seeds and water starter trays. He is eager to help in the garden with planting, digging, watering, mulching and so much more. It's all work to me, but for him there's the joy of helping and getting his hands dirty. I get pleasure from seeing him so happy as he grows the garden "up, up, up!"
Additionally, I started gardening with my grandmother, who passed away just last month. As I started hagen activities recently with planting some starters, I find comfort in memories of gardening with her. This year is going to be a little different in that way.
There's also the quality of food that comes from a garden that is so different than the grocery store. Fresh vegetables grown with care just taste so different - of choose its got a lit to do with the seed stock. I try to not grow vegetables just for size and quantity, but for taste. Everybody who has grown a tomato with old fashioned taste understands how wonderful fruit and vegetables can be.
Gardening is not just fruits and vegetables either, raising poultry is part of it too for me. The rich compost we get thanks to the chicks and ducks manure its incredible in the garden. The birds also enjoy bugs, "weeds", and trimmings and overripe produce that all comes from the garden.
Lastly (although there's so much more), a garden is just a thing of beauty. E get to walk out the door and see lush greenery full of colorful fruits and vegetables from Spring to Fall. This year e are taking flowers a but more seriously too so we can intensify that beauty in the garden and spread it out being the garden gate onto the patio, the flower need around or house, the stairway our front, along the driveway and so much more.
I is hard work and stress that goes in, but all the things that come out of a garden are well worth it.