BT, come one over to our thread
https://www.backyardchickens.com/forum/viewtopic.php?id=295839&p=1 We are a bunch of cancer fighters, suvivors and supporters. Some of us like Deerman and I are fighters, Deb is one of our supporters, and there are many survivors on BYC.
If your Dad is anything like me, he's not going to want people around all the time. The first treatments I had, I preferred going through with just my husband and I. I was sick, but I didn't need constant care. It's just me and my husband and he worked just about the entire time, taking time off to take me to my monthly treatments. I was sick as a dog for the first week, feeling better the 2nd week and ready to take on the world by the 3rd, even though I was very weak. I tried to work but with the stress of my job it just wasn't possible. Lunachick, a friend of ours, had a few tummy issue due to radiation but other than loosing her hair, she did great.
Ya'll need to find out what the name of the chemo drugs they will be using. Then research them. I would not start treatments until you Dad knows everything he needs to know about what is going to be happening. It can be a scary thing. BUT attitude, my belief is the biggest part of the battle. If you believe this thing is gonna get you, let me know where you want flowers sent because it will take you out. If you believe you are going to whip is azz it's a done deal!! I was diagnosed June 2, 2008 with Stage 3 grade 3 HER2+++ Breast Cancer. I should be dead by now. I beat it once, but it raised it ugly head again. Guess I didn't kick it's butt hard enough the first time!! I'm still here and plan on being here for a very long time. They say only the good die young, I'm going into to eternity, lol!!!
Come one over to the thread I posted.