Duckie, we've always called them Writer Spiders due to the zigzag in the web. Sounds like yours gets good meals.
When my daughters were young they would catch crickets and I would 'feed' them to the Writers around the house. I would put the cricket on forceps (Ex worked at a hospital for a while) and reach towards the web. The first few times were scary, as the spider bounced her web to scare us off. But after a couple of feedings they would slowly reach out and take the crickets right off the forceps. Because they are so big, you could actually watch the spinnerets shooting out the silks as they wrapped the crickets. It was way WAY cool.
I was always terrified of spiders before that, but had to be brave in front of the kids. I do MUCH better around spiders these days, as long as they don't crawl on me!