I feed them lots of treats and they come and visit. I also pick them up wrapping them up in an old towel. It keeps them from pooping on you and scratching you. They don't like it when you go to pick them up, but they like being held and snuggle right against my neck in my hair. I have one that sits on my lap when I'm watching TV. I put a towel on my lap and let the duck lay down on the towel and pet her, she loves it. She closes her eyes and goes to sleep.