Hi in your initial post you said the were skittish and you wanted to bond with them more. I have 2 ducks which i hatched myself and although they will never leave eachothers side, from the moment they were born they wont leave my side either. their one year old now and literally cry and quack constantly if there no with me or sitting on me. the most important part was literally the first few days and weeks but right now just dont be afraid to handle them. hold them and sit them on your lap whilst you watch tv and let them realise your mummy duck. mine when they were small would cuddle ontop of me and sleep. they hate water and the usual duck things. they have an expensive taste and will never eat bread, they hate it. they dont eat corn or beans or anything. theyll eat tomato and cucumber and sweet peppers but only if i hand feed it to them and they seem to get along with pellets. no question on mealworms. if my ducks dont god absoluetly crazy for mealworms theres something seriously wrong. just give them treats when they stay in your lap and let them want to sit on your lap it may take some time but its **** worth it