I agree with what Bee and others have said. After watching some factory farming videos about poultry and pork, they simply added fuel to my passion for raising my own. If I could get hubby to agree, I'd have a goat or two and a couple of pigs for meat, but he's a city boy, and does well to tolerate my current "farming" activities! I have the perfect place for a porker or two, and OH! What they'd do to improve the land!!! But, my eyes glaze over when I hear folks going on a rant about the cruelty of butchering my own meat. My Step Mom has said: just don't serve me one of your own chickens. Fine... no problem, that! My home grown meat is too precious to serve to someone who has issue with eating it. Mac and cheese, it is! Seriously, she grew up visiting cousins who lived off grid. Said that when she visited them, she had no idea what kind of meat she'd be eating, and knew better than to ask. At least my meat is recognizable!My mother accused me of being blood-thirsty because I kill animals for food. Because my kids are fully aware of where food comes from, and how it gets on the table. Because I choose not to buy factory farmed meat. Because I would rather eat an animal that lived a healthy and humane life, on my property or a few miles down the road rather than something that lived in terrible conditions and came for who knows where.
Invite him to go pick up your monthly feed supplies, then have him come out to help tend the animals for a week. Then ask him who the "cheap one" is. As far as "real" meat goes, invite him to dinner, and play some of the videos showing pigs laying on filth covered cement, in a pool of their own blood, because they have gone mad chewing the metal bars of their enclosures, and are covered in rotting ulcers because they have no bedding.My father-in-law says that I'm too cheap to buy 'real' meat.