RE: So earlier today my sister was mad at me about something stupid and she walked over and without warning opened my coop door and let my dog- who is not trained- into the coop with my 2 month old chicks. He luckily didn't get any of them but it sure did scare the peewaddles out of them! I was so mad. And she continued to say "they are only chickens. You can just go buy another one for like 3 bucks." I don't think I have ever been so mad at her.
Edited by The Golden Egg5 - Yesterday at 10:32 pm
This is why I'm not bothered by the fact that my son is all that's left of my family. Family can be stressful. When I got married to my second ex-husband, I went back to college to complete my degree. I came home one day to find he had surprised me by making supper and he had used one of my very nice grip-stand mixing bowls from England to put it in to bake in the oven. I had a cow, yelling that it wasn't oven proof and would break. His response was that "it's just a bowl". I told him that next time I wanted to hang a picture, I'd use his finely calibrated torque wrench to hammer the nail, saying "it's just a tool". That got his attention.
So, the next time your sister feels entitled to decide what SHE can do with YOUR animals, find something of hers that she values with which you can reciprocate. "You can get more for $3 apiece", indeed. That's not her call to make. Don't get defensive about it. Just be firm and assert that it's YOUR property, YOUR decision. Period. She hasn't the right to decide to endanger it. So, be sure "the worm turns", next time he pulls a stunt like that.