Things were rough early and mid in our marriage as well. I thought when you love each other nothing else matters. Turns out EVERYTHING matters. And good relationships requires work, commitment, and sacrifice from both. Now I don't worry about divorce when we do face challenges. But I also have held the papers. Neither of us came from unbroken families and had lot's of learning to do.Thank you Kristy. Cheryl and I have been blessed to do a lot of marriage counselling and we have led 7 different groups through marriage studies. Things were not always like they are now for us. There was a time that our marriage was not good. I actually held the divorce papers in my hand in 1991 but couldn't go through with it. I am sooo blessed to have her.
Thank you for sharing that as well. Often on the outside people just think you've always had it great when you've been married for a while. We are going onto year 18, and maturity has a lot to do with the peace we currently have. And of course, lot's of prayer! Now we are only semi- dysfunctional.... but it's OK because we put the FUN into dysFUNction.

After the loss of a bird it always takes me a while to feel normal towards the rest. Here's to a speedy recovery for you all.
