@Fire Ant Farm I believe in fate - and if you'd have been able to get the original kitty I was looking at, I wouldn't have found this one, OR been able to make my husband show me how much he loved me. 
Seriously, I didn't *need* another cat. But he said it broke his heart to hear me sobbing hysterically in the bathroom after he died. He wasn't there when I son died, but I told him when our son died, it was probably the only other time in my life, that I've cried quite like that.
I had the cat for 10 years. Short of a horse, it's the longest I've had an animal since I was a kid, if that makes sense? Like, I'd him pretty much my entire adult life.

Seriously, I didn't *need* another cat. But he said it broke his heart to hear me sobbing hysterically in the bathroom after he died. He wasn't there when I son died, but I told him when our son died, it was probably the only other time in my life, that I've cried quite like that.
I had the cat for 10 years. Short of a horse, it's the longest I've had an animal since I was a kid, if that makes sense? Like, I'd him pretty much my entire adult life.