Ethics question about found jewlery
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If it has a social security number, the police might be able to find them. If there is a way to find them, I would not feel right keeping it.
I would certainly try to find the owner again. And myself, I would not ever consider selling it, melting it down, or anything as long as there's a chance that the person may be able to be found. If it was a ring without any identifiable markings on it then that is one thing but if it is identifiable then that is another. Suffice to say that I never profit from another persons loss.
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Oh well previous response is out there in Internet land somewhere. Try again!
Obviously if you didn't have a doubt and your mind was clear, you wouldn't be asking. You know that the ring does not belong to you.
In today's world of instant information available via a simple Internet search.
Name of the school-- should be on the ring.
Year of graduation---- on the ring.
Initials of rightful owner--- my initials are on my ring. (I know Balfour ring co does this)
Can't be to hard to at least get close to the rightful owner.
Obviously if you didn't have a doubt and your mind was clear, you wouldn't be asking. You know that the ring does not belong to you.
In today's world of instant information available via a simple Internet search.
Name of the school-- should be on the ring.
Year of graduation---- on the ring.
Initials of rightful owner--- my initials are on my ring. (I know Balfour ring co does this)
Can't be to hard to at least get close to the rightful owner.
I know if it was my ring that I lost and then someone found me after 10 years to give the ring back then I would feel extremely grateful.
It would be amazing to know that someone was looking after it and trying to find me for ten whole years.
It would be amazing to know that someone was looking after it and trying to find me for ten whole years.
This is my second post on this thread, but it sounds like everybody's got a different opinion about what you should do. Don't over think this. You tried to locate the owner of the ring when you found it and you've kept it for 10 years. Your post asking opinions says to me that you could be hesitant to sell it or you could just want someone to say it's okay to do it. At the end of the day, whatever you do will be on your conscience, not those of the people who respond.
Some years ago, a student found a 1980something class ring on a baseball field at another high school and brought to my school. He asked that I try to find the owner, but didn't want to leave his name. I convinced him to leave it anyway along with his phone number. If the owner could be found he would at least want to thank this boy for returning it.
To make a long story short, it was pretty easy to id the owner using the initials inside the ring, the year of graduation, and the commencement list from that year. All the records had been sent to the central office, but I found the name in the phone book. The boy who lost the ring luckily was a junior. Surprisingly, the student's parents still lived in the same house and had the same phone number they had when their son was in school here! I called and left a message. The next day, the guy who had lost the ring called me back. I told him about the kid who had found his ring, especially the part about not wanting to leave his name. He was so happy when he picked up the ring he'd lost 15 or so years earlier! He left an envelope with a cash reward for the kid who found it, along with a note commending him on his honesty.
It will be definitely be harder to figure out the owner using a ss number since they are kept confidential. You could call the school and ask them first if they keep these numbers on file anywhere. If the answer is no, then I'm not sure where you'd go from there. But if the answer is yes, you could ask them to call the person it belongs to an have that person call you. They will not give you his number or address or even his name due to confidentiality laws, but should certainly be willing to do ask you ask. One thing I can say is if the ring is more than 20 years old, the school will probably have to contact their central records department, the same way you'd search for a transcript.
Some years ago, a student found a 1980something class ring on a baseball field at another high school and brought to my school. He asked that I try to find the owner, but didn't want to leave his name. I convinced him to leave it anyway along with his phone number. If the owner could be found he would at least want to thank this boy for returning it.
To make a long story short, it was pretty easy to id the owner using the initials inside the ring, the year of graduation, and the commencement list from that year. All the records had been sent to the central office, but I found the name in the phone book. The boy who lost the ring luckily was a junior. Surprisingly, the student's parents still lived in the same house and had the same phone number they had when their son was in school here! I called and left a message. The next day, the guy who had lost the ring called me back. I told him about the kid who had found his ring, especially the part about not wanting to leave his name. He was so happy when he picked up the ring he'd lost 15 or so years earlier! He left an envelope with a cash reward for the kid who found it, along with a note commending him on his honesty.
It will be definitely be harder to figure out the owner using a ss number since they are kept confidential. You could call the school and ask them first if they keep these numbers on file anywhere. If the answer is no, then I'm not sure where you'd go from there. But if the answer is yes, you could ask them to call the person it belongs to an have that person call you. They will not give you his number or address or even his name due to confidentiality laws, but should certainly be willing to do ask you ask. One thing I can say is if the ring is more than 20 years old, the school will probably have to contact their central records department, the same way you'd search for a transcript.
If it has someone's SS# on it there are ways of finding that person. I would have contacted the police or a SS office and explained the situation.
If there were no id on the ring I would have sold it.
If there were no id on the ring I would have sold it.
Try facebook. Many classes create reunion groups, or just "class of ##" groups. You have the school name and year, correct?
I mean I doubt anyone is still 'looking' for the ring, but give it one more shot so you have a clear conscience when you sell it.
(now I'm off to message the girl who 'borrowed' my 14kt class ring 20 years ago. Wonder if she still has it?
I mean I doubt anyone is still 'looking' for the ring, but give it one more shot so you have a clear conscience when you sell it.
(now I'm off to message the girl who 'borrowed' my 14kt class ring 20 years ago. Wonder if she still has it?
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