Nat - I'll pass on the eggies for now. I'm going to hatch this last batch I have in, then unplug it for a while since I have so many trips planned over the summer. When I fire it back up in the fall I'll let you know!
When we had our chat DH said he would do all his stuff and I wouldn't have to worry about it, but I told him that's not the point. Sweeping, mopping, dishes, etc is nobody's stuff, but still has to be done and that's the stuff I want help with.
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your 100% correct! It EVERYONES stuff...My Dh's point is that he does all the plowing-outside work ( not chicken related I do that all) fixing things-I do all inside things...FINE! it is pretty even but I hate it cause I do alot of outdoor work too plus deal with ALL the girls things...A while back Dh asked where his certain work pants were...certain shirt and sock..I said "did you wash them?" he sais NO? So I said well I guess there still in the dirty clothes pile aren't they. I told him if he wants something washed dont be in a hurry as his things are not on my priority list- ( he did his own laundry that night and fell asleep on couch!) mauauauaua got the king bed to myself
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your 100% correct! It EVERYONES stuff...My Dh's point is that he does all the plowing-outside work ( not chicken related I do that all) fixing things-I do all inside things...FINE! it is pretty even but I hate it cause I do alot of outdoor work too plus deal with ALL the girls things...A while back Dh asked where his certain work pants were...certain shirt and sock..I said "did you wash them?" he sais NO? So I said well I guess there still in the dirty clothes pile aren't they. I told him if he wants something washed dont be in a hurry as his things are not on my priority list- ( he did his own laundry that night and fell asleep on couch!) mauauauaua got the king bed to myself
Yeah, DH tried to pull the "I do the outside, you do the inside" and I was like "What outside stuff?!" We don't mow the yard, I've been asking for fencing/chicken pens for MONTHS and they never get built, etc. He doesn't even remember to take the trash to the road half the time and I have to do it. I feed/water all the animals, etc. There is no outside stuff!
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your 100% correct! It EVERYONES stuff...My Dh's point is that he does all the plowing-outside work ( not chicken related I do that all) fixing things-I do all inside things...FINE! it is pretty even but I hate it cause I do alot of outdoor work too plus deal with ALL the girls things...A while back Dh asked where his certain work pants were...certain shirt and sock..I said "did you wash them?" he sais NO? So I said well I guess there still in the dirty clothes pile aren't they. I told him if he wants something washed dont be in a hurry as his things are not on my priority list- ( he did his own laundry that night and fell asleep on couch!) mauauauaua got the king bed to myself
Yeah, DH tried to pull the "I do the outside, you do the inside" and I was like "What outside stuff?!" We don't mow the yard, I've been asking for fencing/chicken pens for MONTHS and they never get built, etc. He doesn't even remember to take the trash to the road half the time and I have to do it. I feed/water all the animals, etc. There is no outside stuff!
oH kELLY ID BE ALL UP IN HIS sh$T!!!! My Dh does everything outside ( I hate to admit..he's the gardner-he cuts all the wood stacks and moves it-mows etc...) SO I cant argue tooo much
I feel for you becaue it didnt used to be that way. Then I had a mental breakdown and we seperated for well over a year-we went our own ways for sure!. After getting back together is when we actually agreed on the way things need and will be or else we were just going to be seperated/divorced again...so far so good 3 yrs later
I hope things ease up for you! It has been a pretty quiet week around here, thank goodness!
THANKS
I see no end in sight all Summer Seriously I have been told and after looking at numbers and such it will remain like this for at least 6 more months...SOOOO bleah BUT I was thinking of a VACA in Sept
Just have to look up air fare and such to see what Im up against!