Today we got a newsletter from my aunt (uncle's wife) and it had lots of news, old news in it that really should have been something that I should have been called or even emailed about... And that made me really sad. My great aunt's husband died, our family as a whole (as in my fathers family) sent flowers and everything... And I find out by a dang newsletter months later. And that for Thanksgiving another aunt of mine (father's big sister) she had my father (who is pretty estranged from everybody, siblings, kids, etc.), my stepmother, stepbrother, and what stepSIL? I wasn't invited, which is okay, I spent it with my husband's family. I've never been invited. Anyway, they all know that my dad is a convicted & confessed child molester, he has molested many little girls. My stepmom thinks it is normal - for a man to be sexually attracted to little girls as young as 3 which I think is on par with the molester. My stepbrother has been in prison (serious time) for theft, drugs, and arson. I haven't any idea about his wife. Wasn't invited to any wedding and it was really the first time that I had heard that he had gotten married. My grandpa (dad's dad) died last year and I feel like since then no one has really bothered with letting my brother or I in on family get togethers. But this kinda takes the cake. I'm hurt. I guess I don't understand.