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[redhen]

Did you ask your wife to show you her friends list?? If you ask her she should show you, unless she has something to hide..
I dont show my friends list either.. but if my husband asked me who was on my friends list, he is more than welcome to take a look... i'm married, i have no reason to NOT show him...
Like i said.., unless i have something to hide.
If my husband had FB and wouldnt show me his list?? Well that would hurt me and tell me that he has something to hide. No relationship will last with secrets...
Just my opinion..

 

[redhen]

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Yes, that makes sense..
Again, just ASK her to show you the list .. easy peasy!

 

[darkmatter]

I'm just the opposite, my wife has a facebook but doesn't do much on it. She laughs at my facebook friend list------Sci-Fi geeks and women from BYC, (some men also)

 

[redhen]

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Heres one of mine now..

 

[HHandbasket]

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Amen.

 

[HHandbasket]

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X2.

(Hey Mike, what part of Louisiana are you in? I lived just outside of Baton Rouge for 3 years from 2003-2006.)

Haughton just outside Shreveport

Ever been to Isle of Capri casino? I think they renamed it Diamond Jacks or something like that. My kids' dad was a bartender there for like 11 or 12 years.

 

[cafarmgirl]

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Amen.

Ditto. Been married 23 years, I don't have FB, neither does my husband, but if I did I would have no reason not to disclose anything he wanted to see or know about. Honestly, just one more good reason not be on FB! After visiting a few family members pages and reading thru all the dribble I personally think it's a hugely over rated bunch of nonsense myself! But since I'm so hypocritical I'm here posting dribble on BYC instead!

 

[MeatKing]

My friend list is hidden, Cause that blocks everyone.. but we each have our own pc, and leave ours logged on. He can veiw all he wants, as do I.. Once if 5 years, cause our internet wasn't working on my pc, but was on his.. It took me a few min. to realize, he was still logged in and I was reading his home page..
don't think their trying to hide anything..
I have a friend in fb, that calls everyone, dear, love and sexy.. He's very inapporite, Sometimes, he will see me online and try to chat me.. I always feel, uncomfortable, and delete conversation. not cause I did anything wrong, cause, I really don't need another man calling me love.. Not trying to hide from dh, but no need to start something either.. You know!

 

[dainerra]

I dont' believe facebook has a "hide friends list from hubby" setting. It is hide from everyone or hide from no one. They do change that all the time, but that is one I'm pretty sure is still the same.

It's a good idea to keep your friends hidden, for their privacy. Don't be surprised if she gets a bit offended though. Since it's going to come across as accusing when you ask her, she could get defensive.

Is the rest of your relationship solid? If so, then why spend time worrying about something as trivial as facebook? Sometimes you have to just accept that you can't have 24/7 access to someone else's life, even your spouse.

 

[La Mike]

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Haughton just outside Shreveport

Ever been to Isle of Capri casino? I think they renamed it Diamond Jacks or something like that. My kids' dad was a bartender there for like 11 or 12 years.

Lmao yea only go toeat though I ain't a gamblin man