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@black_cat

guitar picks dont go in cookies silly!

hey so take a deep breath. have you ever heard of executive dysfunction? it looks a lot like procrastination in that you dont do the thing you're supposed to do, but it's not quite the same. it applies to things you like to do as well. it's more of an aspect of your brain where you just... can't do things, like press the button to start. procrastination doesnt, imo, lead to you hating yourself. that sounds a lot more like executive disfunction which is more of a mental health thing. so, first off, you're not lazy. your brain is doing a thing and that's okay. you are not doing to get anywhere beating yourself up, okay? so first just breathe and understand that this is a real thing and NOT you being a failure.
ive heard of it but never really considered it as something that might be an issue because i'm usually pretty ok at doing things
i've always figured i have anxiety but not bad enough to take meds
i don't know if self hatred was the right word
maybe more like
extreme anger at self combined with insecurity
 
Report, hit ignore, and walk away.

Fighting doesn't fix anything.
can't report because he hasn't done anything against the rules
i dont think that 'generally being a jerk (i have stronger language but its not allowed)' can do anything
 
@black_cat

guitar picks dont go in cookies silly!

hey so take a deep breath. have you ever heard of executive dysfunction? it looks a lot like procrastination in that you dont do the thing you're supposed to do, but it's not quite the same. it applies to things you like to do as well. it's more of an aspect of your brain where you just... can't do things, like press the button to start. procrastination doesnt, imo, lead to you hating yourself. that sounds a lot more like executive disfunction which is more of a mental health thing. so, first off, you're not lazy. your brain is doing a thing and that's okay. you are not going to get anywhere beating yourself up, okay? so first just breathe and understand that this is a real thing and NOT you being a failure.
the guitar pick is for the guitar not the cookies :lol:
 

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