I had to stay up this late because I wanted to finish reading everything. I am so very happy that you changed your user name. Everytime I came across "Fattie," I cringed that you obviously felt this way about your self. I honestly hoped "Fattie" was one of your hens.
I've gained alot of weight since I had my son 26 years ago and don't miss a chance to be-atch about my weight, and my overeating, ice cream addictions etc. By calling myself "fat" so often people felt it was perfectly okay to call me that too. I don't know if that is true in your case.
When we label ourselves it can become a self-fulfilling prophecy. I would love to be thinner because of the negative impact on my health. If I could drop my self-deprecating behaviors , etc. maybe I could get a handle on my misadventures with food.
Hope things work out for you - you deserve it.
I've gained alot of weight since I had my son 26 years ago and don't miss a chance to be-atch about my weight, and my overeating, ice cream addictions etc. By calling myself "fat" so often people felt it was perfectly okay to call me that too. I don't know if that is true in your case.
When we label ourselves it can become a self-fulfilling prophecy. I would love to be thinner because of the negative impact on my health. If I could drop my self-deprecating behaviors , etc. maybe I could get a handle on my misadventures with food.
Hope things work out for you - you deserve it.