I've heard layer mash referred to here, then people say they don't feed pellets or crumbles. So, what exactly IS layer mash???
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I've heard layer mash referred to here, then people say they don't feed pellets or crumbles. So, what exactly IS layer mash???
I forgot you were a nurse. You must have had your fair share of whiners![]()
I'm just not that person. Never was a people person. Always related more to animals.
I feel confused when people get emotional around me. I don't know what to say, or do. ie: I turn into an awkward mess lol
You simply have NO idea..... I could have a set of Whiner Encyclopedias full of content, with new issues for each year. But, for the most part, most of my patients have a need to whine and are truly in pain and discomfort~those are the ones that rarely, if ever, whine at all....these I will lay down my life for each and every day and park my judgements at the door.
It's the folks you work with and socialize with that fill the Whine Chronicles...
After you have dealt with true pain and anguish all day, you get a little crusty shell that hardens over your heart for anyone with self-inflicted stress and troubles. I was a very unsympathetic mother and would tape broken fingers and send them back out to play. Big gash in the chin? Clean it, slap a bandaid on it in steri-strip style, and send them back in the pool. Not that I didn't do the obligatory mother comforting but it was on a timer....no excessive boo-boo lovin'. Clean it, kiss it, bandage it, forget it...that's my mama mantra.A no whiner zone at my home.
Quote: I choose not to associate with these people. My time is too valuable to be wasted on such non-sense.
I put up with it from my family (my grandparents), but I will not put up with it from 'friends'. This is how I have friendships that have lasted a lifetime (though I'm young yet, but have had the same best friend since I was 12).
I blank out when my grandmother starts talking about the cost of lettuce and how it is outrageous. I go to my happy place.
very smart!! I tell my kids, "You are oil, they are water."
Last time I went to the feed store, I asked for a bag of scratch and when I got home noticed that the ticket didn't say 'chicken scratch' it said 'poultry grains.' Opened the bag and it was completely different from the scratch I've always gotten - had so much more in it - millet, corn, oats, what looks like the peanut hearts, and two or three other things I can't quite identify. I don't know if they made a mistake or if this is a new scratch blend they do for winter, but I sure do LIKE it! And so do my girls!!![]()
Mine are 21 weeks old on Friday. They've been on FF since they were around 8 weeks old. I just cannot get over how much money I save on FF - there is ZERO waste of feed, they are all so healthy and shiny, and the coop is a breeze to clean!! I spend about 1/3 of the money on feed for 30 chickens that a neighbor of ours spends for 16 chickens. I've tried to get him to switch over to FF several times but he'd rather complain about the cost of feed than do something about it.Oh, well, that's his wallet, not mine!!
I have encountered TONS of people like that and about all aspects of their lives. They seem to enjoy stress and the attention they get from vocalizing their stressed situations, so are quite unwilling to do anything proactive to change it because they are getting the benefits of all the attention they crave.
I choose not to associate with these people. My time is too valuable to be wasted on such non-sense.
I put up with it from my family (my grandparents), but I will not put up with it from 'friends'. This is how I have friendships that have lasted a lifetime (though I'm young yet, but have had the same best friend since I was 12).
I blank out when my grandmother starts talking about the cost of lettuce and how it is outrageous. I go to my happy place.
very smart!! I tell my kids, "You are oil, they are water."
Hangnails hurtI am the same way for mothering. I remember when my son wiped out when he was a small child, He barely wimpered and i didnt go nuts over it tho I knew he needed stitches. We washed it & went to doc for stitches. My neighbors were freaking out more than he was lol I figured just all my years an EMT & daily dealing of people on the phone screaming for an ambulance for a hang nail![]()
Everywhere I have ever worked is literally filled to the gills with these types of people! Can't escape them, though now I have....
I have family like this and I too avoid them like the plague. I have also slowly cut all my former "friends" out of my life that also have this problem....and that took out most of everyone I know. It's almost an epidemic proportions plague of the mind for society now to complain loudly and often about things they could easily change, but won't. But they still expect you to sit still and listen ad nauseum to their litany of problems.
I'm a fixer, not a whiner. If I have a problem I tackle it. If I cannot solve it, I learn to bear it gracefully...and quietly. The world is more and more lacking in those who are willing to solve the problems and more abundant in those who like to hear the sounds of their voices in a high pitched and rhythmic drone set on the Problem Station.
Don't believe me? Go to the section of the forum that deals with health issues and injuries and try to help. The most frequent flyers on that forum are also those who will either ignore your help and continue to do it "their way"...as that has been so successful for them in the past, or they will deny a million times that your solution will work "for me" and that they could "never do that!!!"~translate "WILL never do that".
It all makes my butt tired and it gets more tired the older I get.
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When you ask someone how they are, you really don't want to hear their life story. I am not good at consoling people - so this makes for a really awkward conversation, that I just avoid them the next go-around.
I'd rather have 1-3 close friends than hundreds of whining so-called friends.
I delete any negative people on FB if I see them whining. We actually are severing ties with a 'friend' who continues to write complaints about her job on there. Can you imagine?![]()