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@Bee... I agree, I couldn't hold a candle to my mom! What you describe your mom and dad doing sounds exactly like my mom grew up - no electricity, outhouse, garden, hauling the water from a spring, handwashing all the clothes, heating with and cooking on a wood stove, one room schoolhouse, shoes only in the winter and dirt poor with a HARD working dad that busted his butt to feed them all. She left home alone at about 17, moved 50 miles away from home for a job. She met my dad and married him at 19, kept on working and had two kids then my dad died when he was about 38. She never did remarry, just kept on working and raising her kids. After working 40+ hours/week, keeping the house and big yard and taking care of us, she didn't have a whole lot of time or energy left for much else. Tough as nails she was/is! But now it's my turn to take care of her and I am more than glad to do it.