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Thank you. It answers some. I heard there is a huge need for infant foster homes because so many people work and the states usually won't pay for daycare. I know it takes a while to get rights terminated, which I honestly wish they would shorten it because its not fair to the children who are left in limbo so long.... especially those whose parents aren't even working the plan! It also lowers the chance of them being adopted the older they get!
It's great reading from someone who has been there. Did you have young children when you started? I have a four year old and I worry about how sad he will be if we go through the process to adopt (we're looking to adopt through foster care) and then after months the child is given back to family. Also how did you refer to your foster child to your kids? Did you say this is your new foster brother/sister? Or brother sister? I don't want to call them my kids brother or sister and have his heart broken if they are given back to parents