- Apr 15, 2011
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Nayeli, it sounds like you have a lot to offer children who come under your care, and I hope you keep pursuing fostering! I do want to touch on the topic of infants versus older children. I think staying within your comfort zones for ages, especially when starting out in parenting and fostering, is a good idea. Just want to make sure that you understand that getting a child as an infant does not guarantee that a bond will be formed and also does not guarantee that very difficult scenarios will not arise (which is certainly true of birth children too). For instance, disorders such as Cluster B personality disorders or schizophrenia can and do develop despite secure and loving upbringings. The latter especially can be a complete surprise, suddenly transforming a child.
I don't say this to discourage, but rather to help with the preparations and education you have already started pursuing. Remember too though that you can't and don't have to know it all. Any parent, foster or otherwise, learns throughout their parenting journey. Parents who remember to openly learn from each individual child are some of the better parents I've met.
I don't say this to discourage, but rather to help with the preparations and education you have already started pursuing. Remember too though that you can't and don't have to know it all. Any parent, foster or otherwise, learns throughout their parenting journey. Parents who remember to openly learn from each individual child are some of the better parents I've met.
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