Belle,
Lawyers can only do so much. At one point instead of alimony my lawyer said to his.....sign over the house and walk away. Which would make sense...he owes me and my family more than the equity he'd get but now X has changed his tune and said he doesn't recall the conversation he had with my mom, me and mortgage guy that if anything would happen between the 2 of us he would sign it over and walk away...that he could never take my childhood home from me or try to get money from it. I wanted alimony AND him to sign over the house.... who's he think he is? He marries me, gets me to pay off ALL his debt with what I got from when my dad died and then my mom pays some more and more and more over the years with the knowledge that he's supposed to pay her back but he never did or plans on it and since we never got it in writing.... it's all heresay I guess and he can say it was a gift. so now he wants the equity in the house...so i'd have to pay him money.
I mean, where's the justice?
and I had a heart attack and complications...can't work just yet...bills are piling up....gas was turned off...electric is threatening to be turned off...don't know how me and my girls are gonna make it...and need God's Grace right now like you wouldn't believe.
I have always wanted to run a home daycare. I'm in the midst of starting one. I go for CPR training on sat. I have the paperwork on getting licensed started...it's just a matter of time. I know with that and child support I could manage but it's getting there, the in between time, the finishing cardiac rehab and getting my liscense....it all takes time.... I'm scared.
