Yah, its both cool and uncool. I love some of these ghots. I don't know if Shirley (Davids my cuz wife) was talking about her David or my dad, also David. As it worked out, Davids my moms nephew, not related to my Dad. My folks divorced when I was 7, and David became Dads best friends. She could have been talking to either. Since I know she's been about the last few days, I went down a bit ago, and called her over and over, to try to get her to come. When I sensed her, I told her (in case nobody thought to tell her) that her David had expired 30 minutes after her at the hospital. I just felt like she ought to know, in case she's still looking for him. I've told her about her kids, and what they're up to, kind of often though. I mean, if they hang about and I know it, they probobly expect info and detials. Obviously they still give a crumb about it.